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Why Many Sex Workers Find the Term “Hobbyist” Offensive

In the sex industry, many clients who self-identify as frequent patrons of sex workers use the term Hobbyist.  In truth, it is a term that many sex workers despise.  Please allow me to explain. Although some might argue that the term is innocuous, I disagree.  How someone labels something also affects how they treat something. … Continue reading Why Many Sex Workers Find the Term “Hobbyist” Offensive

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The Importance of Elevating the Debate in the Sex Industry

Let me preface this blog by stating that I am merely one sex worker in an industry of diverse perspectives.  Although sex workers have many shared experiences, we do not think alike on every issue.  Some sex workers will fully agree with my thoughts, others will partially agree, and others will fully disagree.  That is… Continue reading The Importance of Elevating the Debate in the Sex Industry

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The Ever-Changing Expectations in the Girlfriend Experience

When I first began in the industry, most sex workers offered safer sexual services.  With the inception of the internet, the public forum of escort review boards allowed clients to offer feedback to sex workers.  Clients wanted a more personal atmosphere and to be treated as though they were more than just a transaction.  This… Continue reading The Ever-Changing Expectations in the Girlfriend Experience